What is findom? A complete guide to financial domination

Findom (financial domination) is a consensual kink between adults where a submissive – often called a paypig or finsub – gets satisfaction from sending money, gifts or tributes to a dominant partner, the Findomme or Master.

How findom works

Most findom happens online. The dominant sets rules, tasks or prices; the submissive chooses voluntarily to pay. There is no physical meeting required – chat, tributes and drain sessions run entirely over the internet.

Common roles

• Findomme / Money Mistress – the dominant woman receiving tribute
• Findom Master – the dominant man
• Paypig / finsub – the submissive who sends tribute
• Cash slave – a sub who follows paid tasks

Staying safe

• Only engage as a consenting adult (18+)
• Set a personal budget and stick to it
• Use a platform with secure payments instead of sharing bank details
• Never share passwords or private documents

On Unlocky you can browse findom listings, chat securely and send tributes by card, Apple Pay or Google Pay – US users see everything in USD.